WOW! You had my tears flowing at the deal you made with your wriggling belly-occupant..
You did a fantastic job bring your beautiful, healthy little girl into your arms! I can only hope I can do as well as you did if I'm put in a similar situation as what you were!
I think it's simply horrid the way they took your DH's moment of glory away from him! Personally, that would be the only thing I'd be dissapointed with! Which was totally the fault of the midwife!