Sushee you are absolutely right, in this instance I am not sympathising with the OP because I really think she is making a bigger deal of this then is necessary. And if the OP did not want all different opinions she shouldn't have posted. I believe she asked what to do, and I, like a number of others, have suggested complying with her request.

I politely suggest that it is you and other posters who also believe that that their opinion is right and mine is wrong - as you yourself said .
You didn't 'suggest' she comply with the request, you actually say that you think she's making a bigger deal than you think is necessary. I don't think it's as small a deal as you insinuate. But in the end, it's the OP's call and her decision.

And in as much as you feel like you have a right to post an opinion on this, I have a right to dispute your opinion. Which is what I'm doing. I absolutely believe that you are wrong. I'm not even trying to pretend otherwise. The OP may or may not, but I am not on the fence about it. And that's my opinion.