I remember sitting at a family dinner with Dh's family and 2 of his cousins are nurses. I had not long had my 2nd child by C/s (first was VB) I commented that I would be having any further children my C/s boy did the comments come thick and fast then . I say ignore them. you need to do what is right for you and your family.

and for the record I had my last 3 children by C/s and while I was prepared for the last 2 they were lovely and relaxed. We knew what was going to happen ..

Good luck with your Pregnancy