Hiya puppies,
my mum had both me and my bro by elective C/S as it was decided by both her and my dad and their OB that it would be best for her mental state as she is also an incredibly nervous/ stressed person and they tried to concieve for 15 yrs for me and they weren't willing to take any chances.
but definately try and learn some skills to be a bit calmer.... my mum is still such a worry wart that it actually affects her quality of life and can also really project onto kids.
I think it's great that you aware of yourself enough to realise that you may need to have a more controlled birth and have taken steps to ensure that your birth is the best for you and DH and your little man

Good luck!!!