Danni i know how you feel this happened the same way when i had Kimberley.

*I was unable to have the screen dropped - They only dropped the screen when i had Alex and Eleanor.
*I was unable to wait before clamping the cord
* I was unable to have DH cut the cord
* I was unable to hold my baby immediately after delivery - The only one i held was Alex. Kimberley was shown to me and taken straight away to SCN and Eleanor i was too sick to hold her.
* there was no skin-to-skin contact - I only had skin contact with Eleanor once i felt better and in recovery. Alex was taken away after my first hold.
*I was told NO BABIES in recovery - Not sure why they told you this but if Mason needed speical care they wouldn't have let him in as they would have needed to look at him.
* I was ALONE in recovery - I was alone for Kimberley and Alexander but with Eleanor DH was allowed in. It's the first time he has seen me so ill.

I hope you are able to work through all this.