mbear thanks for posting your traumatic birth it actually made me realise it's not just mum's who have c/s that feel that dissapointment and need support :hugs: big hugs to you!

Danni I really feel for you I know that feeling of bewilderment and blur when birth doesn't go to plan and you just expect that it will happen naturaly. We don't expect to have to have a C so we don't prepare for one which makes it more of a shock :hugs: