just when i thought i'd have to go and jump of the nearest bridge, that by the way has no water in the river below it, LOL, there has been a repreive. only small but a step forward.
DS1 and i did some exersise yesterday, walked for 30 mins, just us and it seemed to make him happy for the day. he was much less annoying to his brothers and was less arguementative than usuall too.
i mean it wasn't all gone, that would be a miracle but we had a good day.

as for the whole school thing i have made a deal with him if he takes sangas for 4 days then he can have a roll up, with ham and chesse on fridays. he seemed ok with this.


fingers crossed.

i know this boy won't be here for long but i am hopefull of some more days with this DS1 ( nice boy)
and not that DS1 ( horror child)

thanks again. will keep you posted.