Hi Yomama,

You sound like me, I tried to sway with 3rd child, got a boy. DH and I are also currently in discussions about a 4th. Mostly the discussions go like, I really would like to try again, he says he is happy with 3 boys. So we still have a bit of work to do, as I really don't feel like I'm finished having babies.

Sorry I can't help with your question re IVF overseas, goodluck though. I am seriously considering using A-Gender this time. Given it will most definitley be my last baby and last chance to try for a girl I would like have their asssistance.