Oh Petal... Been there, done that... And tbh... after 34 months of trying with nada nothing and supreme zip and no identified barrier to conceiving, there is no miracle answer.

I have been on holidays, I've eaten and drunk what I liked in the tww, I've worked no end, AP, naturopathy, chiro, IUI, and the only thing that worked for me was time. I may desperately want a little one, but the little one is not ready for me. I have come to the understanding that its all happening according to someone else's plan - whether it be God or the Spirit baby, whatever you may believe. And strangely enough that has given me some peace.

I threw away temping and measuring and calculating and I now guess when I could be O'ing, but otherwise DH and I are living. Thats all that is within my power to achieve atm.

If you are spiritual in belief - have a look at the book "Spirit Babies - how to communicate with the child you are meant to have". That was my ultimate answer to letting go of control and allowing life to continue on.
That and women here who have miracle after miracle when they are told it can't/won't happen.

Good luck to you, I hope you can find some peace on this journey soon.