I'm still not sure if we are ready. Do we earn enough? - that is my biggest concern!
But what I am sure of is that we want to be together and we want to have a family together. We run into problems sometimes and always find a way to get what we need and come out the other side. It sounds like you and your man are a strong happy couple capable of overcoming challenges together. I think that's what matters. But only you two can decide when to start trying again.
We were much the same in thinking that we would quickly fall pregnant and then have a baby. Definitely were not expecting the mc. And it made us much more hesitant and question whether or not we were ready for the challenges ahead.
I really feel for you. The urge to become a mother is so strong.