Lot's of hugs lovely I'm sure people think we're crazy having a second after DH decided to go back to Uni but we're doing it and it feels right. Trust your instincts....you can have all the money in the world but that won't make the decision any easier I say go for it! You can never be prepared for what life throws at you.
oh wow. thank you all so much for your kind words and stories. you're all right. there is NO perfect time for a baby, and if you continued to wait... we'd all be too old.
i asked DF last night if he would spare 5 minutes to read this thread, he did he loved all your replies and thanks you all too
his reasons for being a bit iffy on having a baby now, is because life for us right now is really great. perfect jobs, new house, no debts etc. which to me, is a great time to TTC, but he doesn't want me to miss out on working, to be a SAHM, which i'm totally fine with that, i don't want to miss our child growing up. i guess it's a bit scary thinking we'll be living off 1 wage, but many families do. so i'm sure we will cope.
he wants to wait and find out what's happening with my job next year, before we set anything in stone. he really does want a baby, his anxiety does mess with him a little bit though. as he worries about every possible outcome etc.
anyway, thank you all so much for your replies, you really have no idea how much it helped me/us
Last edited by Mummy&Daddy2Be; December 6th, 2012 at 09:05 AM.
Thankyou thats lovely xx
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