I agree with Arimeh about that one, cause I am a woman and I am even thinking like that too a certain extent to try and stop myself being disappointed and you know how unemotional men like to be . well just to inform you ladies we dtd last night no protection and my hubby said if ya get pregnant you get pregnant, and I said I really cant see how it could be a bad thing, and he said "no of course it wont be". I think my hubby wants ttc now but like yours Lisa he wont actually say it, he is like me he reeeeeally want another now but know its not the best time so oh well we will see what has happened, we've dtd twice without protection right before im due to ovulate so we will see.