hi kate,
just been reading here. Never been in your situation so i won't offer you any opinions on the matter other than i can feel for you and we can all hear your pain and struggle through your posts. You can only do what's right for you and there is no need for apologies, explanations or excuses to anyone else.

but i noticed you'd said you just want to get it all over with. Just be aware there are some psychological issues that go with abortion and may i suggest you have a counsellor or a very trustworthy, non judgemental friend on stand by for support. I know you feel it will close this whole sorry saga, but i am just worried the trauma/stress of the cheating, pregnancy and then termination in the face of ttc will come back to haunt you.

so don't forget to look after yourself as well. and you don't deserve to wallow in guilt forever.

Be proud of yourself for handling the situation with a level head, seeking independent advice and making a sound decision.

take care and i know we are all thinking of you.
ox