It may seem like a really, really stupid question, but how do you cope with TTC, being told you're up against it, meanwhile you put every possible thing in place to try and enable this 'miracle' to happen, but...nada, zip, zilch, zero, no-go, no-show???

At the moment, I do feel alone: although I have a great DH, supporting Mum & Dad, and a couple of friends I have confided in, nothing can prepare you for how apprehensive, panicked, intense feeling of inferiority you have to every other woman who has had a child, or is pregnant. Did I also mention how emotionally draining this is???

TTC seems to take over your life, your moments with DH, (I mean, I'm timing our holidays to coincide with the 'right time' of the cycle), it permeates your every waking thought. e.g. I'm obviously feeling stressed, it's 10.30pm at night, I should get some sleep, did I have enough greens today? what about calcium, should I go and have a glass of milk? how many glasses of water was it today???? AAAHHHH

I'm doing everything possible in my power to get this potential baby carrying vessel 100% and super prime, but it just wears me down, down, down.

Does anyone have any advice for coping with this agonising time in our lives ie TTC?????????