I haven't been doing many persies either, but I'm pretty sure we all know that we each have different stuff going on and sometimes other things are just more important, we get busy. Plus people all have their own agendas, priorities and reasons for using BB and it's different sections and threads.
For me, mostly I use the weight loss thread to try to get up a bit of motivation by seeing other people trying to and doing what I am/want to do. When I get personal messages and that kind of support, I do admit I love it (narcissistic much?? lol) but if I don't I can totally understand that! Alot of the time I am trying to do 500 things at once when I am on BB, and think I should write to someone in a thread, or even start a thread, but usually forget. Try not to take it personally if people miss you or seem to not notice things you say. Though I know from personal experience it can be hard not to. But it is usually soooo not a personal thing!

Anyway, I have had a terrible few days. Back to it properly tomorrow though. I am making nachos for dinner tonight and while I know it's not healthy almost anyway you make them, I have been CRAVING them for days since my girlfriend said she was making them and if I don't eat them soon, I will most definately explode!!! (Or...wait would that be AFTER I eat them??!) I am going to use the healthy mince (only half from the recipe, the other half will be kidney beans), low fat cheese, low fat sour cream and the lowest fat, no salt corn chips I can find. Hopefully they won't be too horrendously bad for us!
I had hoped to at least get in some exercise but it is bucketing down here and I am so tired after a bad night with DS2 so I think I will put that off til tomorrow too. I still feel like....nay, AM making more and more excuses though. I had a photo take of me a few days ago and my goodness, it's horrible! I just don't see myself as being so fat in my head! But I am. And I need to change, or I just might really get sick or even die from being so unhealthy. I am actually going to go to the doctor sometime soon (it's not that easy to get into my doctor, he's a popular man!! Plus I live in a small remote town and he only lives here for 2wks a month!) and make sure all of my 'things' are ok, lol. Like blood pressure, cholesterol, thyroid, iron...blah blah. Because I have been feeling so meh lately. Most likely just cause I am so fat and not doing alot of exercise or eating that well, and too much, but who know's maybe there is something.

Ok gotta go, baby is awake....see, not persies! Sorry. I will try again later.

ETA. Ok just missed like 100 posts, but cherished, I'm so sorry you're feeling that way hun. Maybe just a BB break? It would be terribly sad to lose you for good.