Wow right back at ya Astird. I'm not surprised someone has read into my post in a negative way. Good luck to you and anyone else who is choosing to look at things in a nasty light because I can't be bothered.
I know it probably wasn't meant to sound 'nasty' and i'm choosing to think that you didn't mean it that way but what you wrote certainly did come across a little harsh, it sounded (and this is my opinion) as though YOU revived this thread, YOU made the effort to do personals and NO-ONE else did so and YOU deserve more support than what we are offering.
I'm sorry if you feel this way and i'm sure you didn't mean it to sound like that.

We are all here with a common goal and while not all of us have a chance to write personals or long winded replies some people do, i find the support of someone just as valuable with a quick - hi how you going than a full response typed directly to me.

I hope no-one leaves this thread, we are all here for love & support with something that can be a very personal issue.