Raven, you are tiny, and you look great! I cant believe you get those comments too. Thats exactly how i feel whenever i see family someone inevitably mentions my weight directly or indirectly. Its to the point where i labour over what i wear to any family functions so as not to wear anything that makes me look bigger than i am etc.

Fiona, YESSSSSSS Im the same I hate it when people make comments on how others look. It really annoys me. Thats actually what my sister does, she constantly talks about who's pretty who's not and the of course the weight thing. She'll be sitting watching tv with us and then turn to my DF and say, do u think so and so is hot/pretty etc, cos apparently her DP thinks she is/or is not. My poor DF HATES it!!! I hate it too, its so irrelevant and who cares so much that you have to analyse it. Everybody knows beauty is in the eye of the beholder and everybody has different tastes!!

I luv my sis but we are very different and i shouldn't just whinge i should tell her but as her older sister and knowing that she has had bulimia (in her teens, early 20's) I dont want to upset her either. I just have to not let it get to me.