My personal opinion is that I am happy for the recipient couple to donate the embryo to another couple, but it is a little weird that I do not get a say in the matter. I very much doubt the clinic would even inform me of the situation.
Wow SD, I have selfishly never considered this angle, but it makes total sense,
I must admit that I haven't actually considered the rights of our SD at all, I was on the fence about donating any remaining embies but my reason was a lot more selfish, I just couldn't get my head around the fact that my DD and soon to be DS's biological brothers and sisters would be out and about in this not so large world I know the risks would be small but a small risk is still a risk too much for me.
We have only 3 remaining embies and although I feel that our family will be complete in a couple of weeks time I will hold on to the reamining embies for another couple of years just incase and will possibly change my mind by this stage.
SD2001 Welcome to our little group, your input will be appreciated, it is great to have some different perspectives to the DC journey hope you hang around with us for a while