Hi everyone
Been MIA for a few months trying to avoid thinking about cycling/TTC etc but we are back on the bandwagon with another cycle underway.

I was interested in your discussion about on-donating embies that are result of SD.

The situation with my sister's donated eggs is DH and I have every right to on-donate any embryos without her permission. This was the one part of donating my sister had difficulty with as she found it difficult to imagine her children having a half genetic sibling (or cousin as we prefer to call any resulting child) possible out in the community and not knowing who they were. If there was a child resulting from the on-donation Em would be contacted by the Vic authorities to let her know but with limited details.

As a way forward we agreed to consult her if we ever considered doing this and wrote that up in our informal contract (like a memorandum of understanding) between the 4 of us. The final decision though would come down to DH and I. Of course in our situation the likelihood of ever being in a position to on-donate is so slim but you have to think of all the possible scenarios. We would probably so known donation after consulting Em as this way there is a link and the child could have a chance to know their genetic heritage etc.

Allie not long now!!! wishing you all the best sweets.
xx