No I don't think you are being mean at all. It's totally understandable that you would want to be on your own whilst you get used to having 3 young children. Stick to your guns if the e-mail comes and maybe suggest coming once you're into a "routine" with having the 3 children and you're more comfortable with having her come and stay.
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Michelle, I agree with the others and don't think you're being mean at all. I've done exactly the same thing with my family. My Dad tried to tell me hw would come for the birth, my IL's want to come as well (but stay out of the Metro area meaning I have to go from hospital to them. Pft, As IF!) and my Grandma has offered as well! I've told them all that they can wait to be ASKED to come. And between all of us on BB, my Dad and IL's have buckley's and none of comming within the first 6 weeks! I'm thinking about my Grandma though...
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
MG
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