and maybe i'm nuts - but i actually LOVE half asleep sex - being so relaxed cos i'm almost asleep, and having him woo me, make love to me. sigh. LOVE IT! he knows if i say no, i mean no, and he won't push it - but i don't mind being woken when he comes to bed later than me, to feel him adoring me like that...
After that last bit, I actualy thought you may have gone off to pounce on your DH

I have a great DH, we do not have sex as much as he would like but he does not help around the house as much as I would like. He may go off to work and come home after a long day, but that does not mean that my day has been any less harder then his just because I did not leave home. I try, he tries. As much as I love him and he is the big love of my life, if he ever said he wanted to leave me because we don't have enough sex then he can go. Sex will never define our marriage as far as I am concerned (and I am not saying that for some it does and that that is all their relationship is about), sex is a minor role in our lives.