Roryrory,

I was very much a supporter of your view in "Controversial thread number one" but I actually preferred your original thread post to that article. There was something about the "think about the way you dress and carry yourself" that got my hackles up. Perhaps its my defenses I'm not sure but I liked your approach much better and if DH ever told me I needed to think about the way I dressed or had suggestions of that type I would feel very disconnected as it is just not something that we value in our world...does that make sense? Its just one way of seeing the world and not mine...