There is a complete double standard - my DH took 5 months off as SAHD for both kids when I went back to work and the comments he'd get were quite ludicrous, especially from the older generation (read in laws).
I hope you'll have MNs dinner on the table when she gets home - really? I never had his on the table. Just stupid gender stereotypical garbage

As for feminism gone mad, I disagree but there seems to be a femi-nazi movement calling themselves 'feminists' that are giving true feminists a bad name. My DH is a feminist - had sees his and my role in our family structure even and that we are jointly responsible for everything. He is even more passionate now that he has a daughter.

But I digress, I agree PN there is much judgement and stupid commentary on family structure. People really just need to mind their own beeswax!!!