i am having some fundamental differences of opinion with bilby's dad too

real day to day stuff

e.g it's taken me three years to convince him it's important to have a table to eat at, to teach her table manners, etc.

he thought it was acceptable to eat on trays, on our laps in front of tv, forever.

i think we should sit at the table together, eat together, share our days event with each other.

there are gazillions of other situations we are also stalemate about - i think one way, he thinks the opposite.

if i could move out and start living as a single mum with bilby, i would.

it's been a shock to me, that he can't put her first, like i want to.