N2L - My Mum chooses not to speak to me. There is no way in hell that I could not speak to my son. My mother obviously has delusions of some description as she didn't speak to any of her other kids either.

To be honest I have been offered the option of seeing her just recently after 7 years and she still hasn't even asked to see me or for my phone number, nada. I have declined the offer as I have nothing left to say to her.

No I don't worry about history repeating itself, I am a very different person to her.