thanks heaps BG yep i know just what you mean but i seriously can't bring myself to ring i no kidding feel so sick to the point i feel i'm gonna crack and it might sound like an excuse which some part it probably is but i feel i can't put myself through it for ' her ' benefit (hope that makes sense), well at least not any time soon ... so DP reckons at some point although i don't think soon as he gets home so late but he said he will ring them to tell them to get their stuff out of our garage (when he is here and i will make myself disappear) cause we are looking to sell the house which we most likely will be doing as we have decided we wanna move out of Ballarat.

DP said he doesn't even care to give the stuff back as they are pretty old for wear, DP doesn't seemed fussed either way.