The reason I also say that WW3 is going to start is after this weekend DH and I have finalised our decision about DS's godmother having him if godforbid anything should happen to he and I and we will be updating our will accordingly......
MIL is going to go postal ..... but if she can't respect our wishes for 5 hours how would she go raising our child according to our wishes?

*sigh* seriously sucky situation!
Um, why would you make this a topic of conversation with them anyway? My father or my MIL have never asked who gets our kids if something happens to us - unless you have actually asked them in the past, curious why you would mention it to them at all?