Avoiding gender and sexuality 'norms'

[Bathsheba]

I tend to agree Ryn, when I fell pregnant I was surprised at how defensive I was of my need to be protected.... I felt so vulnerable. Good point.

This reminds me of a funny but true book I saw whilst queued up at our book store: called something like "Porn for New Mums" and featured page after page of gorgeous, hunky blokes doing things like the vacuuming, changing nappies, washing the dishes. Which is telling men that they should consider redefining masculinity to a certain extent... doing house work is not feminising! But caring for your female is! (Being masculine)