I completely agree that men and women have inherant differences and I have no problem with that. My issue is more with society placing restrictions on children because of gender (Billy Elliot is a good example). But my particuar gripe is the assumption of hetrosexuality. It annoys me no end. I understand that knowing the social 'norms' and stereotypes is important for children so I expect my son needs to be exposed to these but I don't want him thinking these thoughts are the 'only way' and I'm irritated that the indoctrination starts so young.