ok with me it was a slightly different situation coz it was my niece her mother put her to bed and all she did was scream i said do u want me to go in there and she said nah she needs to go to sleep and hour later yes i said an hour i went in there i just could not listen to it but i will say she was a bit older than 9 months and her mum was 16 but she is a lot better with her now i know its no excuse but yeah sorry to waffle on but i wouldnt be able to sit there and listen to it i have done it with Jamie coz i was just really frustrated and tired and in no way was he screaming like that

but yeah i wouldnt be able to bite my tongue at all maybe u could have a word to her in private maybe but im not sure wat it would achieve