As a mother, do you you really believe it is ever possible to remove yourself emotionally from any issue concerning your children? That is what makes us Mother's.
Yes I do. I do it everytime I have to leave my kids at home to go do something they can't be a part of. I know they are safe as they are only left with their Dad. But The tears & the "we'll miss you though mum" are all put into play. But if I can't remove myself emotionally, how would I get anything done?

When I say you need to remove your self emotionally. I mean from any guilt you may already be harbouring from your choice on how to fed your baby. If you are infact 100% comforatable with your choice to use Formula, why does it bother you so much that Bfing is being made to been seen as normal & that formula feeding risks are being made known.
I too think the "baby Killer" thing is over the top but I also think in the context in which it was used its not, because in some cases such as third world countries it really is a baby killer. There is a picture that I would love to be able to track down of a women holding her twins. One (the boy) is at the breast & the other is on a bottle. This mother was told she could not BFed both babies. There for she breastfed the boy & shortly after the photo was taken the little bottle fed girl died. The photo shows a very healthy looking breastfed bub & a very thin sickly bottlefed bub. This was in a third world country & the mother was miss informed & yes formual feeding killed her baby.

Yes people see smoking & formula feeding in 2 different lights but at the end of the day they are both un natural things to be putting into your body & they both carry risks. So why are they seen in a different light to each other?