I've tried talking to him about it so many times. According to him there's no jobs and the ones he does apply for never gets call backs from. He's soo picky and refuses to apply for anything other than 9-5 weekday jobs. But he has no quals except his MR licence and doesnt want to do much heavy lifting. This leaves him with retail and crappy, low paying delivery jobs.

He doesn't care that he's mooching off his parents, he's never lived out of home so doesnt know the difference and has no issue with thier disgusting living standards.

Every time he brings up having another bub I tell him we cant afford it and that's the end of the convo, it's just frustrating me cause I DO want another but we cant because he cant be bothered to get a decent job and do some old fashioned hard work.

I want to keep BFing so cant go back to work yet otherwise I'd be right into getting myself a job.

I know there's not much I can do, just had to vent a little before I imploded. (we need an emoticon for that )