Heaven- had that convo a hundred times too, it just doesn't get through.
Thanks though.

Retrogal- yay for loving your little girl .
That's what I thought you'd say re the psych. Just thought it's a different kind of doctor so might be different.

Maybe he needs that time away from you to see what he's risking? Not saying I think that you should end things just show him your serious and it wasn't an empty threat, IYKWIM?
To me, as an outsider, it seems that he's just not taking it seriously and cant be bothered thinking about it so just isn't, either that or it's daunting and he doesn't want to know about it.

I dont know hun. I'm far from an expert in this and you'd probably get better answers from people who have experience with this rather than me. Could you speak to your doctor about it? Maybe they would have a way that you can get him to take his depression seriously and encourage him to get help?

Big 's, sorry I couldn't really help.