I agree with the other girls.. But at the same token, a child deserves to brought into a world where it can be provided for! I think it's great that you guys are planning and talking about it instead of it just being an accident.. but babies and children are expensive, are you guys going to be able to pay off a morgage, car repayments, furniture, bills and the kids on top of that? I don't mean to be a downer, but i think that's what parents worry about.. Are you truely able to provide for these children? I have no doubt you could provide for them emotionally - but how about financially? And what about if there are complications and your little tot needs to be in hospital for months?

Good luck and all power to you!