Lots of great advice here, leo, also I just wanted to let you know, I cared for years about what my parents thought. I mean, I still do, but it doesn't stop me doing what I want. I moved in with my boyfriend at 22 and my parents were horrified. It was really difficult for me because I've always been very close to them and I didn't want them to be disappointed in me. Then when I rang then last year to tell them that I was pregnant I could tell they were shocked and worried for us. This is after M and I have been together for nearly 10 years, and I was 30!! BUT ... they were so supportive during the pregnancy and they just adore their grandson. You may be surprised that while your parents have opinions about having children at a young age they will still be supportive and love your children.

Getting married and also getting finances etc in order will definitely prove to them that you're mature enough for this decision. Actions speak louder than words so perhaps concentrate on the things which will make you happy and secure in your own life and hopefully all the other stuff will fall into place. (Easier said than done, I know!)