I am not trying to sway you either way.. As i think it's totally up to you, but i would hate to think that you are doing it out of selfishness rah rah instead of becoming a mum for the right reasons.. not that i think that's you, as i don't know you!

But i just thought maybe you could could make a post asking people whether they were happy with having kids when they did and would they recommend having kids young? IDK if that's something you would like to do or not - just an idea, even i'd be interested in peoples responses! Obviously you could taylor the post to whatever you like..