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I agree with BG, BDT and BW.

Yes, we were told why we can't conceive (male factor infertility)

Yes, our FS has explained the reasons to us, and discussed with us our options for treatment. He has made recommendations and offered advice. But the final decision was up to us. Our FS was supportive of us trying natural methods before turning to IVF, because that's what we wanted to do.

We're now possibly looking into the realms of unexplained fertility (as well as the male factor infertility). FS has been very open about this possibility, and explained to us his limitations in helping us get pregnant. I'm not a motorcar, and my body does what it likes, despite the best possible IVF treatment. There is no natural selection in motor vehicle mechanics - my body does things that my FS (and I) cannot control.

And our FS has shared our anticipation, hope and frustration throughout this journey.

I agree with BG that it seems a bit silly to open up a thread, make lots of provocative statements, and then tell people not to respond unless they agree with you.

I also emphatically agree that it would be very sad if your only reason for wanting to meet up with other infertile couples is to discuss the shortfalls of IVF treatment. That's certainly not why I'm on BB.