Arrgh kittykat its tough isnt it. Its such a difficult age. My eldest two are from a previous relationship though my husband has been Dad since Emmy was 18 months old and Jess was 3. I definately think your dd needs to be with you, especially at this delicate age. It can be tough at times, but like Dee has said it doesnt sound like the most ideal sort of situation for your dd in a caravan right now. Ride it out, it will get better. Ive always found though, that because Darren married into an existing family, despite the children being so young, it worked better for us for me to be the main disciplinarian. I hope its gets better for you. I can remember so vividly being that age, and its just a whirwind of emotions!!!

Jo