Gosh, I feel bad, I've never even thought about this!

I definitely have a more relaxed approach to this sort of thing And I'm a prem mum! I think most of the mum's in our group are probably the same, but maybe not all of them? Maybe I should check?

And I agree, the sickness thing is a no-brainer. I wouldn't take DS anywhere except the Drs or his grandmother's if he was sick. And I would let people who came into contact with him know that he has been/might be unwell. I really am anal about that sort of thing, I think it's only fair.