Hey BW that is great .. have another one to add:

When I am down or stressed, dont say 'relax and it will happen', or smthg similar or proceed to tell me a story about some1 who did everything and when they decided to take a break it happened for them. It makes you feel like you are your own worst enemy. Support me by saying, I know you are doing the best you can, have faith and it will happen in your own time.