Sara69-thanks for your opinion and i don't want people to see me as greedy for wanting more children you see i thought i had finished having kids my marriage ended and i thought my baby day's were over then when i met my now DH he had one daughter he doesn't get to see often as she lives a fare distance away and i saw how great he was with my boy's and he said he always wanted a couple of kid's we talked about it and i said i would have one more to complete our family then after we lost abbi we were so heart broken that i feel we will never get over or move on from abbi's loss if we do not try to fulfill our dream we will regret it for the rest of our live if we dont try so this is why i am here i fall pregnant fairly easy but i'm not sure i want to take the risk and just go with PGD IVF