Sara69-thank's for your reply i understand what you are trying to say i just wanted you girl's to know this is somthing i have thought long and hard about and i have to follow my heart but thankyou for your opinion it help's and if your friend had luck with her babies it give's me hope and i'm sorry you got bad new's about your last cycle.

Where there's hope-thank's i was also thinking about the chances of natrual conception each month are not real great in your 30's and i am considering trying natrually while we wait for the geneticst to isolate the gene it could be between 4 and 12 weeks if we are not pregnant by then i will look into IVF thank's for the info it give's me more to think about and i will pop in here from time to time if you dont mind an amature inexperienced PGD IVF girl asking questions.