Awww, Humphrey. Abandon you? That's not my intention!!! Question - what is a ****sut? Is that a bit like Runaround Sue? If it is, then I'm one. Like the other ladies, I consider myself in 2 forums. I still stick my head in to see how you guys are all going, support you and offer advice where I can. In a lot of ways being in the LT TTC forum is good therapy for me. I can remember all those feelings from years ago when I thought I just would not survive the trip intact. Now I can look back and see that I did and how much my ability to cope with disappointment in general has improved. Oooops, I sound like a maiden aunt. By the way, can anyone tell me - am I the oldest out of all of us? Not that it bothers me - just thought there may be an award or something... 8-)

But, at the same time, I'm feeling pretty cr*ppy about my seemingly hopeless situation now - I don't want to be saying negative things to you guys if I'm feeling like I'm just about at the end of the road IYKWIM. I too, am hoping this forum won't become bitter and twisted. We'll make sure it doesn't. Trish had some great words once - let the experience make you better, not bitter. Perfect.

Back to the relationship question. My ex would not even consider IVF until his best mate and wife were told that was their only hope. Then it was an ok thing to do. I'd tried to get him to an appointment for 2 years! Of course, they got their appointment before us, then she fell pg naturally!

Anyway, enough of that. How's everyone else in here today?
Keen - where are you? Is tomorrow the big day? Good luck if it is.
Hey, Sush, no work for you. Any new bribes in mind? Hope nobody else can access your work email!!!

Ciao for now