Hi Jules,

I totally agree with the counselling issue. Then if he still does not want kids thats okay - but what about you. Don't forget that if you give up something as huge as this you may recent him one day for doing so. I am not saying he is right or you are right i'm just saying also don't forget that what you want is important too. Wanting a child is something so natural to most women and there is no turn off switch. Good luck - but i think you will find he is thinking this all too much - too invasive etc - the counselling may get to the bottom of it. Wishing you only the best.