I voted that I don't need assistance & find it insulting.

In actual fact I was told twice I needed IVF but conceived naturally.

I guess it's not exactly insulting but I do think it's wrong for people to be asking for more than one baby. I do not have any issues with people getting two transferred but of course I'm talking about infertile couples here.

I am very glad I live in Australia where this scenario would not be possible.

In the US IVF clinics have very different rules to ours. In general if you are under 30 they transfer 2, 30-38 3 is the usual, 38 to 40 4 is standard and over 40 they will transfer as many as they get. Some less scrupulous IVF clinics there will implant more than these amounts in younger women. It supposedly increases your chances but what it really does is it helps increase their statistics for pregnancy rates which of course are far higher than their statistics for live births due to the m/c risk for multiple pregnancies.

Why anyone would "order" twins I can't imagine. One bub keeps me pretty busy.