Thanks oh-wise-one that is BG.. that all made sense.

Thanks to you as well Krystie - thats a great idea.

We are currently talking on facebook - there are a LOT of issues there - and I'm just going for it - her grilling is over - never knew she had so many issues with me!!! So now its my turn for the grilling

I'm sure that the kids part forms a lot of our problems, but also the fact that I "hung" out with her ex boyfriend when my first marriage broke up (even though she was married at the time) and the fact that I didn't go to her wedding.

I think we're sorting out those issues first - then we'll go back to the "Children" chat.

Wish me luck in all my untactful ways I have!!!