Sometimes we just have to vent, Carrie, so go for it! Like I said its not only the relationship with your DH/DP that gets effected with IVF or even problems with infertility in general. IVF only adds to the stress, but there is often already strains and stress as a result of problems with conceiving anyway.

Ive found that all relationships in your life can be effected, even if they dont know about IVF, even if its simply because you have difficulty talking to people who fall pg at the drop of a hat....

Anyway.... as my dad would have said "Keen, you get that!"
:smt102

Keen