I just rang uo the nurse in hysterics as Im still spotting (for the last three days at night)! Just started my Puregon last night- and went to the toilet tonight and yep still spotting! It seems to happen in the evenings??? Nothing in the morning or through the day! Its not like a period- just a lillte red and thin and stops in half an hour its happened three days in a row now- did anyone experience this??? The nurse seems to think its fine and was trying to console me, but I was quite unconsolable!!! I just wanted everything to go perfectly- and Ive NEVER EVER spotted in between period before!
Kim, seems we're both having a rough trot with this IVF thing. Nothing seems to be going right for us at all!
Sometimes I wish these nurses would actually let us talk to the doctors - even if it's just to make us feel more confident with what's going on. I wish I could say something to make you feel better about all of this!
I did make a point to her that I spoke to another nurse 2 days ago and someone was supposed to get back to me and they didnt! I was really upset- i think the drugs Im taking aren't helping with the emotions! I just want an answer! My DH has a phone app with the dr tommorow and he's going to talk to her then! I know there a lot of people seeking fertility treatment at these places, but sometimes i think they over extend themselves! i dont want to be forgotten and Im spending a lot of money on this and I dont want them to tell me next week that things arent right!
I so completely know what you mean there, Kim. As devestating as it was yesterday to find my cycle cancelled yesterday, I am feeling comfortable with the decision now, and relieved that it was so close to the beginning of things. Not that they talked about it in those terms, but giving me a trigger shot and telling me that I can expect another period soon really tells me that we are starting a new cycle, not just pushing this one back. I'm sure the medications are messing with your emotions, as well as having to deal with the whole emotional aspect of finding yourself doing IVF. I hope everything seems better in the morning and you get some answers from the doctor. And hopefully an apology for them not getting back to you when they said they would.
Shaz - I'm so sorry that it wasn't your time again this cycle, it's hard for us to make you feel better but we do no how your feeling.
Your not alone in this rollarcoaster ttc ride!
Mel - I am so excited for your wedding, I hope you are not stressing too much just really try & enjoy the day because it goes so quick. (don't sweat the small stuff)
Kim - sorry your having a rotten time atm with the spotting, some nurses are hopeless sometimes!
I don't think they realize that the drugs we are on make us really emotional & they need to make you feel important because you are.
They are suppossed to be there to help you!
Well haven't decided about my job yet & to tell you the truth I wish I had changed jobs before we started ttc.
I have stayed at current job thinking that when I fall pg I can still work a couple of days a week there & I would be quite happy at that but little did we know that it would take us so long.
I could have been in another job for almost two years by now!
My Dh did have a good idea about maybe doing a trial for 3 months & if it's too much for me I can go back to how I am now.
I also think it might take ttc off my mind a little which has to be a good thing.
Thanks for your advice, I'm going to try & get the weekend to think about it some more.
Jo - 27 (treated endo)
Dh - 33
TTC #1 since June 2005
First chlomid / IUI Jan/Feb 2007 - BFN this will be the year!
OMG!! How huge has this tread grown!!!!!!! There is no way i could do personals, there are just too many LOL... Just wanted to let you guys know that Kim is now 7DPO, she had her IUI with two follicles a week ago and today she had some period like cramps and a massive headache....signs of implantation???
Shaz big hugs sweetheart! By the way where do you go for your accupuncture? I was going to Newstead Holistic Medicine but they charge me $70 each time and it was getting unaffordable.
Hi lovely ladies, hope everyone has had a good day,
Shaz, Just want to let you know that I'm so sorry about your BFN. Hope you get some answers really soon.
Loula, I'm sorry for your HPT reasults & symptoms too. I hope BT is soon to let you know for sure either way.
Twomums, good luck with implantation!!! Hope this is the lucky one for you both.
Finally we have the results of DH y deletion tests back. (they were done mid Dec) and Dr says everything is fine in the genetic department so we can still use DH swimmers even though he has low numbers, low quality and low morph.!!! We have been sitting here wringing our hands for weeks now cause he said it would take a month for the results and we kept thinking something must be wrong. I wonder how long they have had the results back before we rang again to get them? Sometimes I feel like they are sooo busy how are they going to remember all our needs? Will just have to keep on to them. He said now just wait for AF and phone to book on. Then they will courier all drugs and instructions here and I dont have to go back till first scan. Glad not to travel if we dont have to cause it takes the whole day really and quite inconvenient workwise.
Well, thats all from me, hope you all are ok
Hugs, SAZZ
good luck with implantation!!! Hope this is the lucky one for you both.
(they were done mid Dec) and Dr says everything is fine in the genetic department so we can still use DH swimmers even though he has low numbers, low quality and low morph.!!! We have been sitting here wringing our hands for weeks now cause he said it would take a month for the results and we kept thinking something must be wrong. I wonder how long they have had the results back before we rang again to get them? Sometimes I feel like they are sooo busy how are they going to remember all our needs? Will just have to keep on to them. He said now just wait for AF and phone to book on. Then they will courier all drugs and instructions here and I dont have to go back till first scan. Glad not to travel if we dont have to cause it takes the whole day really and quite inconvenient workwise.
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