Just thought I would pop in and say a quick hello to you all.
Megan - Can I just say that I can't believe what your doctor has said to you!!!!
You really haven't had that many attempts enough for him to tell you to think about calling it quits.... God, there are women you hear stories about (and books and tv shows for that matter) that have that many goes you wonder how they still have a functioning reproductive system... and then they end up with a baby at the end........ Whatever you guys do, don't let you doctor allow you to feel negative enough to give up hope.
If and when you guys decide to give up, let it be because thats what you guys have decided - and for your own reasons - not because one doctor out of thousands made you feel like you should doubt yourselves.....
Some doctors make me so mad... they are clever enough to do the job, but bedside manner and personality they just don't have a clue!!
Don't give up.... and change doctors
Hi to everyone else - Also I just wanted to say how wonderful everyone on this site is.... I had a look at another site someone had recommended to me, and thought I would post a question or two.... In one of my posts I ended up trying to answer a ladies question, and afterwards I finished the post by saying
"you think after 4 yrs & 4 cycles of IVF I would know more, but I don't, I'm sorry"
Anyway.... a lady posted a reply last night telling me not to complain about 4 yrs and 4 cycles... she told me my experience is nothing, that she'd been doing it longer and that I didn't know what heartache was yet...and to try for another 4 yrs before I did any more complaining or venting....... CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?????!!!!!
I wasn't complaining anyway... just merely pointing out that although I've been doing this for a while now, I still really don't know that much to give this other woman better advice!!!
Oh well, what can you do???!!!!
Thanks so much to all of you ladies for always being so wonderful!!!!
I think I'll just stay here in the safety and comfort of BB from this point on!!!
Hope you guys are all doing ok - Much hugs and best wishes to all of you cycling at the moment xxxx
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