T-Hopes - I'd be bloody angry as well. And to talk to your Mum behind your back to me that is crossing a line and not forgivable. She has worried you mum uneccissarily (having a spelling block).
We only told my Mum and my MIL about our IVF. We told no one else. DH told his sister we were doing it but never discussed it with her. Needless to say she had to blab to 1 family member and then it did the rounds but I refused to disscuss it. It is no ones business but Mine and DH.
Family put way too much pressure on me and I don't deal well with pressure and I tend to get snappy. It's not the imediated family who gossip it's the extended family on DH side that are nosey and want to know the ins and outs. They eventually stopped asking me which I was very happy about. Not that I told them anything. After the 500th time of being asked what's happening you kind of get sick of hearing it.
I still get the "Are you UTD Yet" from one extended family member but I deny deny deny all. They never new of the first pregnancy and I'm so glad they didn't. I actually dread telling them all because they will be comparing my pregnancy to another family member's pregnancy and she's due a couple of weeks before me. Already I'm sick of hearing about her. Sick of hearing how sick she is blah blah blah. She should be god damn greatful.
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